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75 first-conversation questions for strangers

The first 30 seconds of a random voice chat decide whether it lasts 30 seconds or 30 minutes. These questions get past 'hi, how are you' fast — without being weird or invasive.

Skip the small talk

  1. 1.What time is it where you are, and what's a normal day for you?
  2. 2.What part of the world are you calling from?
  3. 3.What's the most interesting thing about where you are?
  4. 4.What were you doing five minutes before you started this call?
  5. 5.What's something you're working on right now?
  6. 6.What's something you're looking forward to this week?
  7. 7.What's been on your mind today?
  8. 8.What made you decide to talk to a stranger right now?
  9. 9.What's the best thing that's happened to you today?
  10. 10.What's a weird thing about your week?
  11. 11.Are you indoor or outdoor right now? What can you see?
  12. 12.What's something you've been thinking about a lot lately?
  13. 13.What show or video have you watched too much of recently?
  14. 14.What's playing in the background where you are?
  15. 15.What's the next thing you'll do after this call?

Get to know them

  1. 16.What's your local time zone? Is this an early call or a late one for you?
  2. 17.What's something most people don't know about where you live?
  3. 18.What's a word in your language that English doesn't have?
  4. 19.What's a normal weekend look like for you?
  5. 20.What's something you're really into right now?
  6. 21.What's the kindest thing a stranger ever did for you?
  7. 22.What's something you've gotten better at this year?
  8. 23.What's a hobby that took you by surprise?
  9. 24.What did you want to do for a living when you were 10?
  10. 25.What do you actually do now?
  11. 26.What's something you do every day that you genuinely love?
  12. 27.What's a podcast or YouTube channel you'd recommend?
  13. 28.What's the most-played song on your phone this month?
  14. 29.What's a movie you'd defend with your life?
  15. 30.What's a meal that always makes you happy?
  16. 31.Are you closer to your family or your friends right now?
  17. 32.What's your favorite city you've been to?
  18. 33.Where would you go if you could be anywhere right now?
  19. 34.What's the longest you've ever been awake?
  20. 35.What's the best surprise you've ever had?

If it's flowing

  1. 36.What's something you've changed your mind about recently?
  2. 37.What's the best advice you've ignored?
  3. 38.What's a tiny daily ritual you love?
  4. 39.What's a small thing you'd never give up?
  5. 40.What's something everyone seems to love that you don't get?
  6. 41.What's an underrated thing about being your age?
  7. 42.What's a question you've been sitting with?
  8. 43.What's a small thing that consistently makes you happy?
  9. 44.What's a tiny worry that won't leave you alone?
  10. 45.What's the best gift you've ever given?
  11. 46.What's a moment from this year you'd want to remember?
  12. 47.What's a hard thing you're glad you went through?
  13. 48.What does a good day look like for you?
  14. 49.What's a fear you've outgrown?
  15. 50.What's a fear you're still working on?
  16. 51.What's the most you've ever changed in a year?
  17. 52.What's something you're proud of that nobody knows?
  18. 53.What's a piece of advice you'd give a younger you?
  19. 54.What's the best thing about being where you are in life right now?
  20. 55.What's something you'd love to learn if you had a year off?
  21. 56.What's a quiet skill you're still proud of?
  22. 57.What's something that's surprised you about adulthood?
  23. 58.What's something you used to want that you don't anymore?
  24. 59.What's something you want now that you wouldn't have a year ago?
  25. 60.What's a moment you felt completely yourself?
  26. 61.What's a song that has hit you differently over time?
  27. 62.What's a person from your past you think about a lot?
  28. 63.What's a piece of art you keep coming back to?
  29. 64.What's a sentence someone said to you that stuck?
  30. 65.What's a small thing that's changed your life?
  31. 66.What's the best decision you've made in the last year?
  32. 67.What would you tell a stranger about yourself if you only had a minute?
  33. 68.What's a question you wish someone would ask you?
  34. 69.What's the most you've ever laughed in one conversation?
  35. 70.What's a kind thing about you that you don't usually show?
  36. 71.What's something you've never told anyone?
  37. 72.What's the best thing about this conversation so far?
  38. 73.What's a sentence that perfectly describes your year so far?
  39. 74.What's a question we should have asked but didn't?
  40. 75.What's the best way to end this call?

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